Anonymous

I'm 19, and I'm lesbian. I've never had sex, and I feel really embarrassed about it. Any words of wisdom?

Whenever you feel ready to have sex is the right time for you. I know plenty of people who didn’t have sex for the first time until they were in their early 20s. For me, the first time I had sex with a woman, I was 22. I’d slept with men but for some reason, I was really nervous about lesbian sex. I definitely don’t regret that I waited to do it until I had a partner who made me feel comfortable and loved.

As for your first time, I wouldn’t be too worried about your lack of experience. You know the basics just by knowing your own body. Plus, some people have a thing for virgins, haha. ;)

Just out of curiosity, what made you ask me (of all tumblrs) this question? :)

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